Leadership has a way of testing us in quiet places, especially when disappointment shows up uninvited. It’s one thing to lead when everything is flowing; it’s another to lead when your heart is heavy, your efforts feel unseen, or the outcome you prayed and worked for doesn’t materialize. I’ve learned your “suddenly” often arrives right after your spirit has been stretched the most.
Recently, disappointment has shown up in my life personally and professionally. I remember a moment in my own career when I poured myself into a project—vision, strategy, late nights, the works. It was transformative work, and I knew it. But when the opportunity came to acknowledge the collective work, the recognition was not there. I stood there, smiling politely, handling it like a pro, while inside, disappointment pressed against my chest. I had a choice: shrink or lead anyway. I chose to lead. And soon after, doors opened that were far bigger than that missed acknowledgment.
My “suddenly” came, just not from the place I expected. But God.
Yesterday, my pastor shared a timely word that struck my soul: “If they never say your name, remember His name gets the glory and He does the work.” Whew!
That’s the thing about disappointment. It doesn’t get the final say. Sometimes it’s simply clearing the path for what’s next. (That’s a whole shout right there.) So if you’re carrying uncelebrated victories or unseen labor, hold your head up. Keep doing the work, keep sowing, and keep showing up with integrity.
I promise you. Your suddenly is still on its way.
